Licensed Professional Counselor
Registered Play Therapist
Sand Play Therapist
Drug & Alcohol Counselor
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Registered Play Therapist, specializing in Trauma Focused Play Therapy and Sand Play Therapy for children, teens and adults. I have my own counseling practice and offer effective outpatient, individualized, psychological care. I treat a number of mental health issues, and provide a neutral perspective to children, teens and adults. I provide individual, family, and couples therapy.
I am a grief counselor for the Victim Witness Assistance Program Office of Military Commissions assisting 9/11 victim family members (VFM) who travel to GTMO, Cuba, to view in person the pretrial hearings of the five prisoners charged with the murder of over 4,000 people who died in the Twin Towers in New York on 9/11/01.
I learned through my experience visiting GTMO, that those who died in the Twin Towers were very much our heroes, who more likely than not, helped others. Although many times there are no witnesses to tell these heroic stories, I believe there are untold heroic stories.
I have been married for 40 years to Brian. I am a mother, grandmother, and have two wonderful grandchildren who helped me write the book, "The Wounded Yellow Butterfly,” a story of a wounded butterfly and other insects and garden animals who rebuild their once peaceful garden after a terrible storm. I am in the process of creating an animation based on "The Wounded Yellow Butterfly" book.
I am providing an audio/video with captions of my book, The Wounded Yellow Butterfly on this website and utube to children who have experienced a storm and/or other disaster or traumatic event in their lives.
A Spanish copy of my book, La Mariposa Amarilla Herida is in the process of being published.
Wishing you all the best, Linda Diaz-Murphy
The focus is to help children, teens and adults become aware of their inner strengths to help each individual grow from their struggles, heal from their pain, and move forward to where each person wants to be in their life. To achieve this, each person is provided a neutral safe space where trust can develop and healing can begin.
I will be there for you every step of your healing journey. Your journey may include feeling safe, expressing your feelings, learning to cope with anxiety, telling your personal story and making closer connections with others.
Initially children and teens may feel shock, bewilderment, or numb. It may seem unreal and may cause a feeling of hopelessness or meaninglessness of life. They may ask, "Why did this happen to me?" We all need order in our lives. We want to feel in control and make sense of our lives and the world around us. When something tragic happens we want to know “Why?”
After a tragic event, children and teens may have trouble functioning at home, work and/or school, suffer from severe fear, anxiety, or depression, have an inability to form or keep relationships, experience terrifying memories, nightmares, or flashbacks, and may avoid things that remind them of the traumatic event. They may also regress and act out child like behaviors. They may experience physical problems include feeling fatigue, being startled easily, difficulty concentrating, racing heartbeat, edginess and agitation, aches and pains, muscle tension, nausea, and headaches.
Recovery may take weeks, months and even years. Each person is different and his or her recovery time should be respected.
Guide children through the stages of grief and toward the transformation to hopefulness by providing them with ways to regain trust, express and cope with feelings, tell their personal stories and reconnect with others to restore and rebuild their lives.
Counseling will help define your role, find comfort, support, and confidence for the choices they make.
Counseling helps you make choices about pregnancy including deciding how many children to have.
Counseling provides a safe place to share the loss of a pregnancy and to gain a better understanding of the normal grieving and healing process.
Counseling provides a safe place for sharing your post abortion loss and to gain a better understanding of the normal grieving and healing process.
Counseling can provide you a safe place to explore what being safe is, who are the safe and unsafe people, and how to keep yourself and others you love safe.
Counseling is beneficial to everyone seeking to empower themselves and strengthen their commitment in facing injustices i.e., domestic violence, rape, sexual harassment, sexism, etc. Men and Women will explore enabling behavior and find the courage to correct injustices, not tolerating, enabling or excusing them.
Counseling can help understand "otherness" and establish a strong identity.
Relationship counseling can be beneficial to all couples looking to strengthen their emotional connection, in all stages of their relationship. Therapy sessions are held with couples in a supportive environment to discuss issues and solutions to better strengthen the relationship.
Depression, fear, and anxiety are some of the most common and uncomfortable emotions that children, teens and adults may experience at some point in their lives. Through sand play therapy, children, teens and adults may recover motivation, perspective, and joy that they once had in their lives.
Many children and teens can experience symptoms associated with painful and traumatic circumstances. Anxiety, fear, and hopelessness are a few emotions that can linger after post traumatic events. Children and teens can overcome these symptoms and helped with caring guidance through the process of grief and healing.
Family counseling can be beneficial to all members in the family looking to strengthen their emotional connections. Therapy sessions are held with family members in a supportive environment to discuss issues and solutions to better relate to one another.
Therapy helps you find hope and balance in your life!
Therapy can help you feel safe again.
Therapy can help you cope with your loss.
Therapy can help you express your feelings.
Therapy can help you feel closer to others.
Therapy provides a safe place to tell your story.
Play Therapy helps your child find his or her balance in life!
"Coping & Safe Bag of Goodies"
Mother and child said, "Attending therapy helped us feel as if we had built a kaleidoscope as the animals and insects in the story had done after the storm. We have picked up the pieces of broken glass, built our kaleidoscope and saw a new way to care for ourselves
by attending another school which helped us move on with our lives." -Karen and Fran
I realized in therapy, "I may be wounded like the wounded yellow butterfly, but I too can still fly even after the abuse." - Anne
"Therapy helped me find peace living in two homes just like the butterfly, the animals and insects rebuilt and found peace in their garden." -John
"Losing my pet was like going through the terrible storm in the story. But I feel better today. Therapy helped me through the sad days and to remember the happy days just like the garden insects and animals remembered things in the past." -Marco
"In therapy I learned I am lovable and have value even if both of my parents neglected and abused me. I am with a new family now and it is a new day just like the new day in the peaceful garden where the the wounded yellow butterfly, the
rainbow butterflies and bird family live.
I got a second chance just like
the wounded yellow butterfly." - Pedro
"I can love my mother and rebuild my relationship with her just like the animals and insects in the story when they built loving friendships. Therapy helped me understand my mother better. She is a lot like the wounded yellow butterfly and I am too." -Mary
Seven Themes: 5 classes of each theme:
Learn what being safe means, who are safe people, who are unsafe people, and learn to protect yourself. If a child claims they have been bullied, assaulted and /or discriminated against, believe them and remove them from the unsafe environment.
Believe your children when they report to you they are suicidal and remove them from the source of their distress and call 911 or take your child to the nearest emergency room. Unsafe school environment includes child on child physical assault and/or sexual assault. For a comprehensive list regarding abuse in schools go to www.nospank.net/out.pdf. These are serious crimes and should never be excused or ignored, but reported to the police and the Institutional Abuse Department of Children Protection and Permanency (DCPP), formally known as DYFS or call your local child protective services.
We respect all people including people of faith, economic background, national origin, race and ethnicity, education, gender identity, sexual orientation, political affiliation, age and disability.
Racism is a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race.
A person of any racial group can be prejudiced towards a person of any other racial group. Also can be a person of any group prejudice towards a person of any other group. There is no power dynamic involved.
Bigotry is stronger than prejudice, a more severe mindset and often accompanied by discriminatory behaviors, i.e., refusing to hire you based on your political affiliation, race, religious, artistic expression, ethnicity, etc.
Artistic expressions may include using "God" and/ or "Jesus" in your poem or other art work.
Discrimination is understood as a practice or action, whether intentional or not, and based upon prohibited grounds of discrimination, that imposes burdens, obligations or disadvantages on an individual or group that are not imposed on others, or that withholds or limits access to opportunities, benefits and advantages available to others.
Low expectations, women and/or men in "power" speaking for "others" when they can speak for themselves, transferring "minority" children to a “slow” class and/or having you place your child on medication for ADHD. Only a licensed mental health professional may diagnose a child. ADHD may be a misdiagnoses for PTSD.
Are forms of bigotry which were common in the pre-Civil Rights era, such as Black students not being allowed to attend White schools at all.
Sexism affects women, men, boys and girls opportunities. Sexism is both discrimination based on gender and the attitudes, stereotypes, and the cultural elements that promote discrimination. It is the belief that one sex is superior to the other and should dominate important areas of political, economic, and social life.
You may find definitions on the Web and Webster's Dictionary
Place: My Office
Time: Saturday 10 am-11am
Cost: $10.00 a class
Facilitator: Linda Diaz-Murphy, Conflict Resolution Specialist
You must register your child or teen before attending training. You may sign up for one theme at a time.
Any form of bullying or violence against you is not ok. Bullying may escalate to criminal behavior i.e., racial or religious or political assaults, sexual harassment & assault, and other forms of violence.
Everyone has a right to defend him or herself when threatened or harmed. Everyone has a responsibility to call the police and file a complaint when harmed. Your actions can prevent further harm to you and to another child and/or adult from experiencing violence. Tolerating abuse is not OK.
Full Circle is when something "comes full circle", it completes a cycle, returns to its beginnings. "We can go from optimism to pessimism and back to optimism again in our lives". It is also an “expression of the moment”.
Photography and videos
Copyright 2017 Linda Diaz-Murphy
Contact Linda Diaz-Murphy, LPC, CTTS, RPT, LCADC
135 Fort Lee Road, Leonia, Suite LL4, NJ 07605
Fridays: 10:00 am - 2 pm
Saturdays: 10:00 am - 3pm